A few people have expressed concern about my post detailing my son doing a bike trick over his little brother's body. I get the feeling that to some, it was an irresponsible act as a mother. I've fielded phone calls and heard rumors of neighborhood friends getting in trouble for hanging out over here. These things have not bothered me. Much.
I'm not a complete idiot--I could see the danger factor as well as the cool factor of playing Evil Knievel. Just to put your mind at ease, I should let you know that after taking the pictures I told him that that was the last time he should do such a thing, however cool it was. "But nothing happened," my son said.
"Yeah, this time," I pointed out. "The more you do it, the more careless both of you will get, and the more likely something bad will happen." My son thought about this for awhile, then nodded in agreement. His little brother, his trusty assistant, merely hung his head and said, "Rats."
So those of you who are getting ready to call Social Services, relax. And those of you who want to see it again, you're out of luck. But don't give up hope. Wait a couple of days and they're sure to come up with another, equally dangerous shenanigan.
Suuuuuuuusan (Sorry, I have to say it like that now that I've seen Monsters vs. Aliens 10 times in the last two weeks.)
I think you're an awesome mom. And if anyone was going to call CPS over this, they need to pull their head out of the sand and realize that this kind of stuff--this trust and memory building--is what makes children grow into responsible, well-adjusted adults.
Posted by: Katie | October 17, 2009 at 10:29 PM
You know little boys are going to do things like that. Most of the time moms just don't know about it. I thought it was neat that they came to share the experience with you. You have a great relationship with your boys and I thought you handled it great. I love the picture with this post. May we all be that happy and care free!
Posted by: Julie B. | October 17, 2009 at 11:45 AM
I have to admit I thought the "trick" was a little unnerving. But you know I am a world champion worrier. I actually thought "bravo Susan". It was brave of you to photo it and I am impressed how well you have adapted to your three boy's adventures. Your husband will tell you I nixed far too many "cool ideas". I actually applaud you. You are one cool cookie and a great mom!
Posted by: Dana | October 17, 2009 at 10:51 AM
I just want everyone to know that you are a very awesome and responsible parent! And I don't recall your kids ever breaking any body parts while involved in any of their shenanigans...my son, on the other hand, breaks two fingers while swinging (he's so embarrassed that it wasn't while doing something cool!!)
Anyway, I loved your post, and of course, I love the picture! Your kids are great!
Posted by: MaryB | October 17, 2009 at 09:36 AM