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"Try it, you'll like it," my sister Laura urged. She handed me a little plastic container with thick green liquid in it. I opened the lid and sniffed. I've had green drinks before and they all tasted like dirt. I've also subjected myself to about every herbal elixir out there and every single one made me gag. Now if I need some herbs I take them in capsule form. Or I smoke them. (Just kidding on that last part.)
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As an LDS missionary in the Ukraine, I ate borscht nearly every day for sixteen months, sometimes for three meals, depending on the number of appointments we had with babooshki, our Ukrainian grandmothers. Near the end of my stay, a friend of mine taught me how to make this soup. But as she had made it so many times that she could make it even if struck blind, her measurements were a little sketchy. "Just put a handful of potatoes in," she told me. She chopped some potatoes into cubes and threw them in the pot. Then she thought for a minute and threw some more in. "How much was that?" I asked in a panic. "A cup? Half a cup?" My friend just laughed. I wrote down Two Luba handfuls on my paper. I just hoped I could remember how big Luba's hands were by the time I got home.
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I’m nine-years old, wearing a flannel nightgown and staring
at the television. It’s around 4
am and the house is so quiet I can turn the volume on the TV down to almost
zero and still hear the funny accent of the man babbling on the program. Aside
from the glow of the television screen, all the lights are off. I lay on the
floor, my head propped up on a squishy pillow, hypnotized. I watch as a shy
English girl named Diana walks down miles of red carpet in a real European
cathedral. She wears a white satin wedding gown with an impossibly long train
that reminds me of a bolt of fabric unrolling behind her, something I had seen
many times while shopping at sewing stores with my mother. I picture Diana
shopping for her wedding dress material. I hear the steady thump of the bolt of
satin unrolling and unrolling with a steady thump, thump, thump, until Diana
finally says, “Yes, that will do.”
On the television, Diana makes her way toward an old man
with big ears, a stringy, sinewy guy that looks like the dud prince in a Disney
cartoon. He is Charles, Prince of Wales, and I decide that he hasn’t yet
changed from being a frog even though Diana must have kissed him by now. I wish
that a more dashing young prince would burst through the church doors on
horseback, declaring, “Come, my princess, my love, my reason for being, and we
will live happily ever after,” at which point Diana would hop on the horse and
ride into the afternoon sun with her real husband-to-be. And on the way out the
door, she’d borrow the real prince’s sword and hack off that ridiculously long
train. “Goodbye forever, Polliwog,” she’d call over her shoulder to the dud
prince standing at the altar. But of course no one else shows up and Diana ends
up marrying Charles. No matter, I tell myself, look at how beautiful she is.
And just think of all the balls she’ll go to and the dresses she’ll wear, I
thought with a sigh. Like all little girls, becoming a princess was a dream
come true. Especially a well dressed one.
My best friend Danielle and I follow British royalty like
some girls followed teen heart throbs. Diana in particular enthralls us with
her sophisticated yet shy demeanor. We have watched her grow from a naïve
twenty year-old to a gutsy humanitarian who shakes hands with AIDS patients
right on television. We follow Diana’s every move through magazines and TV
specials about her. Princess Di, as we and the rest of the world start to call
her, is more fascinating than any other Royal figure in the bunch.
But it isn’t her charity work that holds my interest. It’s
her clothes. Princess Diana is a
fashion maven who wears sparkling evening gowns and dances with movie
stars—without tripping. She looks good in everything from jeans to dresses. Her
hair always looks perfect. She appears to be a real blond. She never gets zits
from eating too many French fries. She’s slim and toned. She swims every
morning for exercise (or so I read in a magazine). And she is stinking rich. In
short, she is everything I am not. And she is everything I want to be.
And so I stop eating French fries (though to my annoyance
the zits continue). I lose weight. I become slim and toned. I get a job at
Hallmark Cards so I can have my own money. I work on my British accent, just in
case I move to England some day. I have my hair styled short and feathery, just
like Princess Di. But two things soon become apparent: 1. My hair grows too
fast to do the Princess Di cut (it looks scraggly after two weeks), and 2. I
will never be able to buy a designer gown on minimum wage. At least, not a new
designer gown. And that’s when it occurs to me that I could buy nicer clothes if I bought them used. And so
begins my adventures in thrift shopping.
I’m in London as a student. I live across the park from
Kensington Palace, although I’ve yet to catch a glimpse of Princess Di. In the
evenings I wash dishes to earn spending money. On the weekends I hand wash a
few loads of clothes to save a few more pounds (the money kind, not the body
kind). And on Saturdays I shop for used clothing on Portobello Road.
One day I’m standing in the middle of a colossal pile of
used clothes lying on the street.
I have just pulled on a corduroy skirt over my jeans when I hear Chad, a
classmate of mine, call out my name. Chad wears expensive shirts and pants,
always immaculately pressed and spotless. He brushes his hair into black shiny
waves, trims and combs his beard into neat lines. Chad starts walking toward me
and then stops. He looks at me with an expression I can’t quite place. I think
he’s just noticed that these are used clothes I’m standing in. Chad looks away
like he’s embarrassed, like when you wave to someone you think you know across
the street, but when they get closer you realize you don’t know them after all
and you’re stuck trying to pretend that you hadn’t waved. I want to hide, but
as I’m in surrounded by boxes and clothes strewn across the pavement, there’s
nowhere to go. Worse, there is also no way to disguise what I’m doing, which is
essentially going through other people’s castoffs. Though I’ve always known I
was not well off, at this moment I feel
poor. Lesser. Lower. No matter how easy it would be for Chad to slip into and
out of my world, it’s not so easy for me to do the same in his. It occurs to me
that it probably never will be.
I wave with a limp hand and sagging smile. As Chad walks
away I slowly take off the skirt, pay the vendor and slunk my way back up the
street. Up until this moment I had been proud of my ability to get nice things
even when it looked like I couldn’t have afforded them. Most of the time I
don’t mind when the other girls on this trip bring home arm loads of new Laura
Ashley dresses and leather bags from Italy. No matter, I’d tell myself. I can always buy those
things used. But now I feel so tired. Of
what, I’m not sure. Perhaps I’m tired of pretending that I can fit in with
these kids. I realize that though I have been thrifting for years, this is the
first time I’ve been caught at it. I feel exposed. Part of me wants to cry,
while the other part of me, the shrinking part, knows that if I do, the effort
will take too much out of me. So I do what I’ve done every night for the past
three months. I go home to the dormitory, walk through the dining room to the
basement kitchen and scrub the dirty dishes of my classmates.
Chad and I never mention the incident, though every time I wear the skirt I think of that day. I see him standing far from me, a wedge of sunlight spilling yellow on the street, Chad’s eyes wide and staring. And I see myself, surrounded by a jumble of used clothing, feeling naked even though I’m wearing a beige corduroy skirt over a pair of jeans from Goodwill. I wonder if Prince Charles would have proposed to Diana if he had seen her on Portobello Road trying on someone else’s clothes. Most likely not. He probably would have said, “Egad, Diana, step away from these people and get yourself something new.”
Back home in the States I continue to wash dishes and live
frugally. I manage to get back to London for a vacation. I decide that if it enables
me to travel, I will thrift until my death, at which point I will specify that
my casket be purchased used. Upon
further reflection I decide that a casket is one of those things, like
mattresses and underwear, that should always be bought new.
“If you write about shopping at thrift stores people will
think we have to,” my husband complains when I tell him about my idea for this
post. He believes in the philosophy that only when you lost your house and
your job did you even consider shopping for used clothing. This explains why he
looked just like Chad the first time I took him to our church thrift stores,
called Deseret Industries, or D.I. for short. As I poked through a jumble of
stuff on the shelves he stood behind me, refusing to touch anything, holding
his arms close to his sides as if protecting himself from germs. After five
minutes of this he declared the shopping trip over and went out to the car.
Though I knew in my bones that there were treasures yet to be found, I followed
him. Now I go to DI alone or with my sister.
But today I’m determined to explore this topic. I shrug my
shoulders at my husband. “I’ll make it clear that we could buy everything new,” I say. “I just choose not to.”
That seems to pacify him for the moment and he leaves me alone to my writing.
He has come a long way from the early days of our marriage. Admittedly so have
I. Now my husband has a list of gadgets and books he wants me to look for at
D.I. or yard sales. And I’ve learned that you just can’t beat a new pair of
running shoes or an occasional new dress.
Yet old habits die hard. I’m more likely to look for what I
want at D.I. before scouring the mall. I’ve come to enjoy the idea of pre-owned
clothing, pre-owned dishes, pre-owned books. Jeans that have already been
broken in are far more comfortable than their new, stiff counterparts--not to
mention cheaper. If your weight fluctuates like mine, it’s not a big deal to
buy something that might not fit in a year’s time when it only costs four
dollars. If your kid breaks a thrift store plate on his way to the table, it’s
not a big deal. When you realize that whatever we buy could be outgrown, lost,
broken, or eventually discarded, thrifting is really recycling at its best.
When I can’t come up with an ending for this essay, my
sister and I go to D.I. in search of inspiration. Strolling through the glass
cases where they keep the really valuable stuff, I find an old People magazine
with Princess Diana on the cover, wearing a white strapless formal and a diamond
tiara. Diana sits hugging her knees and smiling like she has just been laughing
with a good friend. As I stare at the magazine, I remember a television
interview with Princess Di from 1995 during which she discussed her failing
marriage, deep depression, an eating disorder and crummy in-laws. Not once did
she mention beautiful clothes. And then I thought of something else. A few
months before her death, she auctioned off most of her evening gowns and gave
the money to charity. Diana’s life hardly turned out the way I (or she)
imagined it would, full of glamour and happiness. Even though she dressed the
part well, in the end it didn’t matter what she wore. And now, somewhere in the
world, women wear her used gowns to parties of their own.
In an instant, I’m back on Portobello Road. Hundreds of
people are gathered in front of a boxy building with large windows displaying
vintage clothing on faceless mannequins. I spy Chad across the street. I smile
at him, looking him solidly in the eye. I’m wearing a huge poufy dress that I
bought secondhand with satin shoes dyed to match. Apparently I’m presiding over
the grand opening of the London Deseret Industries Thrift Store. Queen
Elizabeth places a giant crown on my head and says, her voice booming over the
noise, “I declare you Princess DI.” I wave with little circles of my hand. And
the crowd goes wild.
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I'm a fan of running. But now I'm kind of injured and can't run as far as I'd like, or as often. So today, I revisit my former self, the one who used to run all the time. Here's a link to an essay published in Runner's World. Tomorrow I'm posting a long piece about Princess Di. Stay tuned!
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With how simple this is to make, it's easy to indulge in a naturally sweet, delicious treat.
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My friend Annie called while I was making heart pancakes last week. She sounded like she was out of breath. "You can say no if you want to," she said first, which always puts me on guard. I imagined she was going to ask me to do something awful like clean a bathroom. Or make dinner. Or vacuum. Or weed a garden. Or change a tire. Or mop the kitchen floor--or worse--mop the bathroom floors.
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Like I said in the Hearty Breakfast post, my mom knows how to make things special. Now that she's a grandma, she has turned her powers towards making things for the grandkids. She's always sending cute holiday things, usually handmade. She is so creative. (She made me a complete Barbie wardrobe for Christmas one year--and I mean complete. Jeans. Leather coat. Evening gown. The works.) I think my need for creative expression comes from my mother. Thanks mom!
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The other day I was yearning for an experience food writer Ruth Reichl describes in her book, Garlic and Sapphires: The Secret Life of a Critic in Disguise. The way Reichl writes about about shopping in New York's neighborhood markets made me want to move there. And that's saying a lot considering the last time I was in New York City during the late Eighties, the subway terrified me and the city streets were so unkempt and creepy that I vowed never to go back. But the New York City Reichl describes sounds downright homey. The shopkeepers know their customers by name. They offer fresh produce and local specialties. They suggest recipes to go with the goods. Reichl's shopkeepers care about the quality of their products and their customer service, not just the bottom line. It reminded me of shopping in Europe at small corner shops and roadside stands, all within walking distance, and all locally owned.
I finished Reichl's book depressed that I live in a big-box-store city bereft of any unique qualities. I have gone to Wal-mart and Target in many cities and in every instance completely forgot where I was, which I guess is the point. Same merchandise, same store layout, same design. A Target in San Diego is just like the Target in Sandy, which is just like the Target in Orem.
Then I happened upon All Seasons Market on 700 East and 8800 South here in my own little corner of Sandy. And suddenly, I found what I was looking for.
Maybe it's because owner Vito Lema lived in New York City, but somehow stepping into this tiny grocery store made me feel like I live Reichl's world, in a place where the shopkeeper knows my name (he did by the time I left) and even walked my groceries to the car. The fruits and vegetables were fresh and bright, beautiful to look at and even better to eat. And the prices! After years of shopping Wal-mart and other grocery chains, I've been duped into thinking they always have the best deals. Not so. Lema proves that smaller stores can offer quality foods at comparable--and even better--prices. Take the organic broccoli I bought for 99¢ a pound, an unheard of price for organic, especially in the middle of winter. Gorgeous red peppers sell for 50¢ (delicious roasted and added to spaghetti sauce or homemade pizza), and lush spinach goes for 99¢ a bunch. And if you like salad, you'll swoon over crisp romaine, red and green leaf lettuces at less than a dollar a head, long lovely stalks of celery and avocados packaged in their own plastic boxes for only 50¢ each. I'm not the most consistent cook in the world, but for some reason beautiful vegetables make me want to spend an entire day cooking. That's why when I shop at All Seasons I get in the mood to whip up salads, roast vegetables and juice some big, sweet carrots. During my most recent visit I developed a craving for borscht, which I haven't made for years. So into my basket went a deep purple head of cabbage, two big sturdy beets and a few onions. Then I spied some asparagus, which reminded me of spring, so I tossed those in my basket. Then collards that made me think of a green smoothie recipe from my sister. Oh, and some kale to make a soup from my vegetarian cookbook, and an eggplant because I love eggplant Parmesan. And two ruby red tomatoes that brought back a memory of when my mother visited from California and ordered a sandwich at Subway. When asked if she wanted tomatoes she stared at the pale slices still firm and green on the inside and said, "Ewww. Those won't taste good at all. Don't you know you're supposed to let those things ripen on your windowsill until they get a nice deep red?"
And the list goes on. It just goes to show you that Vito Lema's store can inspire even the most reluctant of cooks, reminding us of how delightful it is to work with good ingredients. And just as a home cooked meal can nourish our spirit as well as our body, shopping at a charming local market like All Seasons can do the same.
Lema stocks a good variety of fruits and vegetables at great prices.
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Have you ever bought a zucchini one day only to have it go moldy on you the next? That doesn't happen when you shop at All Seasons. "Customers say that my produce lasts longer," Lema tells me as he carries my groceries to the car. As a former produce manager, he knows that bigger stores keep their produce in storage for days before they put it out for the customer. "I don't keep my produce in the back for a week before I put it out," Lema says. "I don't order too much and I put it out right when I get it." You may not find a mountain of lettuce, half of which is wilted or slimy or rusty at the edges. But you will find a small display, carefully chosen and cared for, that is guaranteed to taste as good as it looks.
Kiwis, asparagus, locally made tamales, and avocados priced right.
Karen is a regular at All Seasons Market."I try to buy all of my produce from Vito," she says. "I can get almost everything I need right here." That's my plan too. I like the small town feel of the place--and the novelty of enjoying a conversation with a real live person at check out, not a machine. How many self check-outs will carry your groceries for you or throw in a lolly pop for the kids?
Though Lema orders from other suppliers in the winter, in the summer he grows his own produce organically on land behind the store.
All Seasons Market also carries a large selection of locally produced bread, milk, cheese, apple cider, and Colosimo's sausage. Lema also makes sandwiches to order. Call ahead and he'll have it ready by the time you get there.
All Seasons Market is worth the trip! Not that it's much of a trip. Located on 700 East and 8800 South, it's a mere five minutes from the big box stores. But careful! If you drive too fast, you might pass it, not to mention the sign on top of the building might confuse you. For fifty years a man named Cy owned the place, hence the name. It looks like this:
But the current name is actually:
And the front looks like this:
There's even a road named after Cy. The market's parking lot is located directly north of this sign.
Bon appetit!
Shop local and eat well!
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This recipe comes from Recipes from the Old Mill. I altered it for those of us who can't tolerate too much wheat.
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As Valentine's Day is around the corner, I rummaged through my books and pantry to find a good treat to make. During a mega case-lot sale in October, I bought tons of yellow cake mix, assuming that my husband and sons would request yellow cake with chocolate frosting for their birthdays, a Hayward family tradition that can be traced back generations in the family food genealogy. But they surprised me and asked for decadent raspberry chocolate cake (I've posted the recipe on this blog) instead. "Box cakes just don't taste as good," my husband said. And he's right. But when the mood for cake strikes and time is tight, boxes work just fine.
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